Work, Life, and Balance

Balancing life when you work second shift can be incredibly difficult especially when there is overtime involved – either on the weekends or during the weekday.  So how do you strike a balance between your work and life when you work second shift? 

Before you accept a job working second shift ask yourself if you think this shift will impact your life in a negative manner.  Many feel that working this shift leaves you with “no life” meaning seeing and caring for your children, dating and fitting in daytime activities can be very difficult – especially if you are working the weekends.  However, second shift could be right for you if you have to balance a second job or are in school.  In the end this is a very personal decision.  Some people love working second shift (like me) and others can’t stand it. 

When you work second shift you need to set up some kind of schedule for yourself.  Some like getting things done, going to work, and then being able to come home and relax.  Others like to wait until the end of the day and work on their home tasks after they get home from work.  Personally I choose to do things the former way; it is a wonderful feeling to know when I get home everything is finished.  Also, shopping is much easier in the daytime since everyone is at work and I can complete my errands much faster. 

Finding activities during the day to do with others can be difficult, making socializing with others a huge issue for those who work second shift.  Volunteering, book groups, campus, dance, and other classes often have daytime hours where you can meet others.  Socializing with others is more difficult, but not impossible.  If you have problems finding outlets, talk with others you work with – second shift workers know what is going on during the daytime hours more frequently than the average person. 

Balancing children with second shift when you have children can be difficult – but again not impossible.  I know a single mom with 9 children I work second shift with, so if she can balance it anyone can.  The most difficult part will be finding a sitter for your child or children, but again this is where others come as a valuable resource.  They will know which child care and sitters are willing to work extended hours.  Also, family and friends can be an invaluable resource and can help you out if needed.

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